Goodbyes are always difficult affairs. Whether it’s a relationship, business, or career walking away from something you’ve continuously worked on for years will always be painful. However, it’s always required for you to keep moving forward despite the bitter memories of a job gone bad.
If you’re in that situation right now, then consider these steps for a swifter and more productive recovery.
Find Other Options
True, it may be too early for you to start working again but that you don’t need to find an immediate job replacement. Check for other career choices and train for them first. You can enroll in one of the many online paralegal degrees or earn a certificate from your local college.
The time you will spend training for your new dream will help you productively recover from your old one.
There are those who would choose to burn their books and their uniforms to heal. If you think that’s extreme, store and hide away any items that remind you of your traumatic employment. You can even ask a friend to keep them for you while you go about recovering and bettering yourself.
Regarding your former co-workers and friends that you’ve gained during these trying times, make an effort to keep in touch without having to discuss your previous occupation.
Be Kind to Yourself
You may find it hard to forgive an abusive boss or co-worker, but you should not hesitate to forgive yourself for your decision to leave. Accepting the inevitable along with realizing your mistakes will not happen if you stay depressed and sorry for yourself.
Fact is, you will need to heal internally first before you begin to move on so don’t hesitate to ask for professional help if you have difficulties dealing with this.
To have a successful future, you need to learn from the past. Bring along the lessons you’ve learned but don’t drag the negativity with you as you move forward. After all, your life is just beginning.